My question to you all

Good morning everyone:)

I have a question for you all and I would love to hear your answers for it, so here is the question: How can people be so stupid when it comes to relationships?

I mean if you think about there is always a time in a relationship where by one person makes a total mess and refuses to say sorry. They then land up losing something that was good for them. I am not only talking about romantic relationships, I am talking about friendships as well. There is always that one person who you need the most and when you need them, they are never there but when they need you, you will run to them.

Just something to think about. I will always be there for people who are not there for me. That is who I am and I am not going to change it but I land up getting hurt.

Moral of this question and post: don’t expect things from people because then you will not get hurt in the long run. People go in and out of your life but the ones who matter will stay forever. Don’t let it get you down because that person is not worth it.

Have a great day

Ash

xxx

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6 Comments »

  1. tanyouyi Said:

    Hi! In this case, you are talking about conflict right?

    In my opinion, some people are those who wanted to get what they want and they won’t back off. And we would usually have the other party who is always compromising to that person. Sooner or later, the one who is always compromising would blew up.

    How many of us would actually sit down together, evaluate the problem keeping each other interest in mind and reach to a point that benefits everyone? I can say that we seldom do that.

    Humans are selfless and at the same time selfish. In a heated argument, nobody would think of each other feelings. And often, no one wants to apologize first as it is a sign of admitting wrong or would be viewed as a loser of the conflict.

    Hence, we must balance conflict demands that pull us in different directions.

    • poetsandall Said:

      WOW. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to write that. Your advice is so right, thank you for sharing your opinion.
      Truth is, not many people think of others when we are hurting but we need to learn that we are not always the only ones who are hurting and sometimes we need to put yourselves aside for a bit and think if the other person

  2. People think that relationships are one way street where they can take all you want and not give anything in return…

  3. Good write-up, I’m normal visitor of one’s blog, maintain up the excellent operate, and It’s going to be a regular visitor for a long time. “Good nonsense is good sense in disguise.” by Josh Billings.

    • poetsandall Said:

      Thank you so much. That means a lot to me. I love your quote


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