Time to get out of this negative bubble!!!

Good afternoon everyone:)

This week has not been easy on a lot of people and by the look of things most people have been having a bad week. We all seem to be stuck in this negative bubble and it is now time to get out of it!

For me this week has not been an easy one at all. A teacher at my school died but he was more than just a teacher, he was a friend, a mentor and a mench. He was a son, brother, uncle and nephew. When death comes along, it brings out the worst in people and when some people tend to speak their mind and hurt people others tend to shut down… They seem to build a wall and not allow anyone in. This is a normal reaction for people to do but then you become a volcano and you will soon erupt and make life more harder for yourself than it should be. It is time to do some cleaning

Your brain is like a box of toys. When you ignore certain situations and you make as if you don’t feel anything other than happiness, your box of toys is messed up and is in need of a huge clean out. Every situation is like a toy, it goes in a certain place in the box and it has warnings on it to make sure you play with it right. Once the situation comes and you see you don’t enjoy it, you place the toy in the box but in the wrong place. Soon you will find that the box does not fit anymore toys and when you place one more toy in it, th whole box over flows and you are left with a mess and it is time to finally sit down and clean it out…

You can prevent the box from over flowing by learning to deal with the toy and enjoy the respect you will discover. The respect will be for yourself because once you realise the toy is fun or usable or can be given to someone else, you will feel proud.

Same with life. When we are given something we do not like, we cannot simply just throw it into a box and never open it again. We need to learn to deal with it and learn to live with it. Not everything in life is nice, fun,enjoyable. We get things that upset us, scare us, make us want to hide BUT we are stronger than we think and we can only find out how strong we are if we do not give up and throw things away but take the time to figure it out.

It is a long and painful process but in the long run we will get out of this bubble that is black, horrible and unwelcoming.

Life is not easy, it is not a walk in the park but if we take it one step at a time and enjoy the stroll… We can encounter the beauty and talk to people we would not have if we ran.

Look at the sunrise and sunset not the eclipse.

Have a great weekend

Ash

xxx

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3 Comments »

  1. Belinda Said:

    Wow ammmmamamamazing and so true

    • poetsandall Said:

      Thanks. I really do love your comments. Thank you for all your support xxx

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