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Learning to say NO

It is funny how people work. We are always so eager to say no to people about things that do not benefit us in some way or another. I have recently gone through a bit of a rollercoaster in my career. I hurt my hand so I have had to take a step back and let my hand heal and at the same time learn to tell people no or that I can’t help them and for me, that has been one of the hardest things I have had to do.

I am not the type of person that will say yes to you because it will benefit me but I will say yes because it is what is best for the person. I have had to put myself first and learn to say no and by doing that, I am starting to take the time to learn what it is that I need.

It is all very well helping people for a living and then coming home and helping out the people that I care about but I have come to realise that it is ok to saying no to helping them and asking them to help me. Some people only see me as the Fixer but I have been told that I am more than just that!

I am more than the person who solves problems and fixes and makes better, I am a person with feelings and needs as well.

I want you all to learn from my time off and learn that it is ok to not always help. You cannot help someone if you broken or you are an empty cup. You need to take care of yourself so that you strong enough to help the other people out there who may need your help. Do not be a doormat and allow someone to walk all over you just because they are going through a rough time in their life. We all have issues and troubles. That is what makes life a challenge and worth it! But that is not an excuse to be used the whole time and not have someone take care of you.

Learn to say NO to save YOURSELF!

Hope you all have an amazing day full of love.

Lots of love



Why I write

why i write

By: Ashlee Zlotnick

I write to get my feelings out.
I write when I’m in doubt.
I write when I am bored
and I write when I’ve been cut by a sword.

I write to tell you how I feel.
I write because it is my soul’s main meal.
Truth is I never used to write
but my mentor pushed with all his might.

I write to make you guys think
and to turn your world into weird colours like pink.
Life issues, problems and joys
gets written about including boys.

I’m not forced to do this
juts like you not forced to call me miss.
This is my soul opening, showing you light.
Now you know why I write.


Good evening everyone:)  I hope you have been having a fantastic evening.

Why is it that all you bloggers out there created a blog? I know the reason I did it was so that people could read my poetry and so that I could have a space where I know people would listen to my opinion about life and how things work especially relationships.

Honestly there is nothing better than sitting in front of my netbook after a long and eventful day and writing about it on my blog. I cannot wait to come home and tell you guys out there about a lesson I learnt that day or share a poem I wrote in my spare time.

Us bloggers have created a family amongst ourselves and I love it!!!! I wish everyone would do create their own blog. It is a place where you can be you without anyone knowing your name. It is your own personal bubble of words, pictures and thoughts. Blogs would not be so successful if it was not for all you followers and viewers so I would like to take this time to thank each and every one of you for being there for me and listening to what I have to say.

Sleep tight everyone, catch you all later alligator